sad-klown-syndrome:

*grabs your hands and speaks to you in a tone that is so gentle* they/them pronouns stop being universal once you learn a person’s pronouns. Sometimes that person’s pronouns will include they/them and in that specific case you are allowed to keep using those pronouns for that person. In any case where you learn a persons pronouns and that person doesn’t use they/them, you should no longer use those pronouns for that person. If you continue to use they/them pronouns knowing that person doesn’t use them, you are now misgendering that person. Kindly stop doing that please. Thank you, I love you.

deermioda:

something I’d like to say..

i dont care if someone’s preferred pronouns bring you discomfort, use them or dont talk about them or interact with them.

“but indi! it/its pronouns are dehumanizi-”

NOPE! i dont care!

“but, this person goes by he/him but dresses femininely-”

so? is it actually hurting you?

“but neopronouns are hurting the trans communi-”

transphobes and terfs are hurting the trans community!

notgreatbob:

“i wasted those years” who cares. you lived the only life you could’ve lived in those moments

splickedylit:

beetledrink:

not to get too deep on main but did anyone else have such deeply rooted issues with their self worth for so long that they thought as a kid/teen that their only redeeming feature was being “low maintenance” and now as an adult you give yourself guilt pangs asking for any more than the barest minimum in virtually any relationship because asking for things might negate your only good quality which is just “doesn’t ask for things”

#you don’t believe you can be liked so you settle for being useful 

ad-wills:

“you attract what you fear”

AHHHHHH A RICH BENEFACTOR WHO WILL FUND ALL MY WEIRD CREATIVE ENDEAVOURS NOOOOOO STAY AWAYYYY

I DIDNT EVEN KNOW DASHCON 2 WAS HAPPENING. NOBODY TOLD ME. WHY DID NOBODY TELL ME I WOULDVE GONE 😭

bundibird:

queen-of-hearts92:

messigoku:

and what are we going to do when the HP series comes out and we start seeing a resurgence of the fandom here including gifsets and fics. like are u guys gonna bring up your neurodivergence and cry “can we separate the art from the artist!!!!! you dont need to pay to watch it!!!!!its my comfort show and I’m DEPRESSED and AUTISTIC”

what then

Important addition:

Reminder that “separating the art from the artist” is a sentiment that only works when the artist is dead and no longer profiting off the work in question.

JKR is still very much alive and very much openly devoted to spending as much of her money on efforts that increase transphobia. You cannot separate this artist from this art, because she is heartily using funds from that art to fund hate groups.

Do not watch it. Do not pirate it. Do not talk about it. Have nothing to do with it whatsoever.

kuromi-hoemie:

kuromi-hoemie:

hey um. so sorry to tell you this, but op of that post plays toys kinda weird. yeah you should just block them, that’s not how normal people play with toys

this is what shipping discourse sounds like to me

satyriconmp3:

i love being friendly and i want to be alone all day believe it or not you cannot do both

boiledegghole:

bringing this over from twitter bc this person literally gets it. watching su for the first time i was literally shocked by how wonderfully toxic the yuri was there. thank you women 🙏